Episode 20

Feel Small in a Big, Loud World? It's Okay If You Do

Published on: 17th September, 2025

There are days when the world feels overwhelming – too loud, too heavy, too divided. And in the middle of all that noise, it’s easy to wonder if your voice, your work, or your presence really makes a difference.

This short reflection is a reminder that feeling small doesn’t mean you don’t matter.

It means you’re paying attention.

It means you care.

You don’t have to fix everything.

You don’t have to change

Transcript

00:06

Hey, this is It's Okay If, bite-sized permission slips. I'm Matt Gilhooly, and today's permission, it's okay if you feel small in a big, loud world. I had one of those days recently where I opened up my phone, I scrolled through the headlines, and the world just felt overwhelming. Division, hurt, conflict, noise, and I sat there thinking, what am I even doing?

00:37

Can I do anything? Does my voice even matter? Does my podcast, these stories, this work, does it make a dent in any of this? And maybe you've had those days too, where the world feels so heavy, so fractured, so loud, that you feel tiny, invisible, maybe insignificant. But here's what I'm learning. Feeling small doesn't mean you don't matter. It means you're awake. It means you care. It means you're paying attention.

01:06

And maybe we don't have to change the whole world today. Maybe we can start by showing up in our small human ways. Listening, creating, loving, trying. So if today you feel tiny in a world that feels too big, that's okay. You're still here. You still matter. So if you're up for it, tell yourself, I give myself permission to feel small and still take up space in this world.

01:37

That's your permission slip, friend. Tuck it in your pocket, and I'll see you next time.

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About the Podcast

It’s Okay If… Permission Slips for Mental Health, Self-Acceptance, and Growth
Bite-Sized Permission Slips for Real Life
What if you didn’t need to have it all figured out?

It’s Okay If… is your weekly permission slip to be human.

I created this short-form podcast as part of my own healing process — a way to slow down, process grief, and reconnect with what I was feeling.

Each bite-sized episode (just 3 minutes or less) offers a short, honest reflection to challenge perfectionism, embrace your real self, and remind you that you're not alone.

Hosted by Matt Gilhooly, creator of The Life Shift Podcast, this show delivers midday nudges of self-acceptance, insight, and calm – whether you're walking the dog, stuck in traffic, or just need a breath.

No fluff. No fixing. Just a moment of truth.

New episodes every Wednesday at noon. Follow wherever you get your podcasts.

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